Authoritative.

No one can change me except myself.
So...
Don't try to change me unless you think you are up to the challenge.

Similarly to control.
No one can control Empress except myself.
Don't ever try to control me unless you want me to control you too.
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Whack-a-Kitty Game.

This is too too too cute and funny. I will feel guilty for not sharing. You will feel guilty for ignoring it.