Is it a must to respect elderly?
Can't equality be practised?
If I choose to respect, does that mean I don't have the right to disagree?
Are they always right just because they have more experience?
Just because they are elderly, that gave them the final say?
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I encounter this stupid problem yesterday. This elder person (60+) kept taking my candid photo. A few times is ok, but most of the time is not ok. Everytime I would avoid the camera and tell him not to take photos of me. I did told him nicely not to take photos and the returns from him is he forced the action toward me. That makes me very pissed off.
So yesterday I tried to tell him and talk nicely about that matter him so as to let him be aware and hope he can stop such action so I would feel pissed off towards him. I really don't want to hurt a person by shooting nasty words and gave cold sholders.
Guess what I got from him. He said that the more I don't want to take photos and hide from the camera, the more he will force it. Think it from a kid and an elderly person perspective. How different are they? I can understand if a kid say this, but if this is said by an elderly, don't you think it is a bit rebellion, rude and childish?
Different people have different perspective. So when I let him be AWARE that I don't like him to anyhow take my photos, he said he don't agree. I just let him be aware, I don't ask for any reply, I don't know why must he disagree and then give me so many reasoning like taking photos is not a crime blah blah rubbishs.
All I want is an ok, I know and he gave me rubbish answer. He is totally a waste of my effort and energy to fight back with him that I just want to let him be aware and not argue with him. I really don't know to get rid of him in my life because for certain reason, it is impossible for the future 3-5 years.
From now on, no respect for this no longer deserved to be respect old man. He would also be my first and only enemy in my life.
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