Compassion and Empathy.

In order to relieve another person of suffering one must identify with that person and share their suffering. This very identification is the means of practicing compassion, and the act of relieving others of suffering and giving them happiness is the path of self-perfection.      - Sensei Daisaku Ikeda

I know I shouldn't be pampering and spoiling her.
And I am not biased against her.
I understand how she feels therefore I couldn't control what I am doing.
Further more she asked me for help and if I don't help, then I am not worth to be her friend.