It is a very sad thing when a person is not sensitive enough and respectful enough. Once is forgivable, twice is still acceptable and more than that is really too much.
If you don't help youself, how do you want me to help you? No initiative was taken, I don't feel your motivation and interests. Just when you take my kindness for granted and you expect some good things from me? Hilarious indeed!
If my business partner is like this, I would really feel very regretful for getting into a partnership rather than solo proprietor or whatever you spell or call it. It applies for my employees as well.